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So it’s been a hot minute since I last made a personal update. * Looks through history* Damn okay, so May was the last time I made a personal update. A lot has changed between then and now. Thankfully most of it was great changes/events. First one I would to bring up is about my custody battle. I know I’ve spoken about this at a number of times over the years. The stress and frustration it has cause my family as finally come to an end. In July we finally had our trial!! Shockingly it went easier than I thought. At the 11th hour before the trial, my lawyer called me stating that my ex wanted to make an offer. This offer came to us not long after we released our findings and witness list, as well evidence for my case. See before we didn’t get a chance to release our records due to the case being pushed back so many times. So once the other party finally got see what we have, the story quickly changed.

While we are still waiting to get the official signed documents fro the court house, I am happy to say that I now have full sole custody of my kids!!! While this is an awesome win for my family, it does have some smaller battles that will continue till the kids are of age. Their mother does have a parenting time plan for out of state. But their mother yet again moved to another state, only after she told the courts that her address at the time was a permanent. This is a on going pattern and would mark the 15th move she has made in the last 3 years. Plus she doesn’t want to pay child support and want me to pay for their trips out there. Or at least half of it… Yeah, that’s a hard no.. So like I said, there are a few smaller battles going on. But the most important one is finished and won. I have custody of my children!! After years of being told “no” or “be thankful for what I have.”, even was told that one point no man in the state of Oregon would have true custody. It was because of these comments I made it my mission to show that this wrong and fight the system. All these years of keeping records and being patient paid off.

August was another big month for us. Lilly got to have her birthday with friends and family. My girlfriend and I got married!! So much craziness leading up the wedding day. The food prep, making all the decorations and everything else that goes with a wedding. But it was awesome to see things come together. I was beyond happy to have most of my family there and friends. Even with Covid, we were still able to get people together. Plus it helped that everything was outdoors haha. We are currently waiting on pictures, there is something like over 400+ photos. So once we get all those I’ve have to share some with you. But we do have a few to show you.

And yes the wedding theme was HEAVY in the Lord of the Rings, Celtic and Scottish traditions. Also I forgot to bring up, I got a new job before the wedding. So it has been a rather eventful few months. Right now we are just trying to enjoy our time and move through life as normal as possible. As normal as we can get with Covid limitations.

I do have a few projects coming up centered around comic books, and DIY cosplay. The cosplay was a quest line that my son started for Halloween. I’ve shared a few pictures on my Instagram, but I’ll make sure to share the project in more depth on here. One of the other project is help my brother with his PR and website building. He is running for office in southern Oregon, so this had been an interesting experience.

My Married Nerdy Life Of Mine Part 2

My Married Nerdy Life Of Mine Part 2

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On October 31, 2015

I got to marry my best friend, my gaming buddy, my companion. Someone who as seen me at my lowest point in my life and still stuck by me. Someone who as walked with me in the darkness and never thought once of running. Someone who as cheered & celebrate the highest points, only to push me forward and higher than before. Someone who supported me, no matter how nerdy the event…

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My Married Nerdy Life Of Mine Part 2

My Married Nerdy Life Of Mine Part 2

162973765

On October 31, 2015

I got to marry my best friend, my gaming buddy, my companion. Someone who as seen me at my lowest point in my life and still stuck by me. Someone who as walked with me in the darkness and never thought once of running. Someone who as cheered & celebrate the highest points, only to push me forward and higher than before. Someone who supported me, no matter how nerdy the event…

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My Married Nerdy Life Of Mine Part 2

162973765

On October 31, 2015

I got to marry my best friend, my gaming buddy, my companion. Someone who as seen me at my lowest point in my life and still stuck by me. Someone who as walked with me in the darkness and never thought once of running. Someone who as cheered & celebrate the highest points, only to push me forward and higher than before. Someone who supported me, no matter how nerdy the event and/or idea was :). Someone who makes life worth living. I get to annoy this one person for the for the rest of my life. HEHEHE!
Carly Vore (Now Roberts)! This past October was super busy/crazy, in a good way for course. I haven’t been this happy in a long time. Or relaxed for that matter. Well, maybe relaxed isn’t the right word for it. Open I think would be a better word. I’m a nerd, Fanboy, gamer, Whovian, trekkkie and a massive science geek. And I don’t have to hide that from her or worry about being judged. She is just as big of a geek as I am and I think that’s why we get along so well.

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There are a lot of things that have happened in my past that I haven’t written or talked about. Some for good reason, mostly because they are personal as well. But with this new life event, it feels like I can close the book on that part of my life, move on.. Start a new book, a new adventure if you will. I feel beyond happy with everything. Feel inspired to make things like paint, drawing, things I haven’t done in years! I’m actually thinking about writing a book about some of my life stories.
It’s odd to have this feeling of support from another person or have someone give a helping hand on a project. I’ve never had that before. Never really had that before… Between the podcasts, Blog, Comic-Con and gaming. Carly was always there :). Even before we were dating….
What’s odd is the people who are in my life now. People who care, people I can hang out with for hours on end or talk with for hours. I have friends who live 100s to 1000s of miles away and we talk on a daily basis. I never thought I would have that. Haveing friends who check in on you or you find yourself wanting to do things for. Like clean up their house or cut down a chunk of the blackberry bushes. Not because they asked you to or you think you might get something in return. But because they are like family and you help your family. Beside, you can make funny memories/stories that way haha. But what I’m getting at is… I feel happy with the people around me. I don’t feel like I have to walk on “egg shells”. I’ve never felt like this before.

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I really think a lot of it happened and came from Carly. With who she is as a person and the support she gives me. I don’t have that nervousness as much anymore. I able to come up with new ideas, make new projects. Live life and be who I am. I love you Carly Roberts and I’m beyond happy you came into my life :).

Virtutis gloria merces (Glory is the reward of valour) A family motto

152787520I’ll post more pictures later on. Right now it’s going on 2am and I’m fixing Carly’s computer at the moment. That and there is a lot of pictures to go through and I’m just to tired to post/upload them all. Plus there is a lot of cool DIY projects both Carly and I did for the wedding so far. There is a second part to this wedding and that is coming in June 2016.